what is the hardest situation you have ever experienced

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  1. aono

    aono Well-Known Member

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    hi dear friends [​IMG]
    hope you are doing well

    ok let's start
    :tongue:

    Note: dear friends you can talk about your life and if you didn't want to talk about it just say things in general
     
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  2. Nyxy

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    Its not easy to open up even under a pseudo name on a board where none of you know me but guess I can give this a go. Been threw a lot of things marriage, child birth divorce. But Id say the hardest situation I have experienced was back in 2003. Late fall of 2002 my father who I was estranged from passed away just after he made a call to me trying to rebuild our relationship. He was planning to come visit me and my husband to make amends. The next thing I know I was getting the call that he died. We had sank all of our funds into our new business and could not make it up for his funeral. I was sad and stressed from that but it was the tip of the ice berg.

    2003 started off rough a great aunt succumbed to breast cancer, then three weeks later my favorite uncle hand a massive heart attack while working out. The store (our business)was failing to bring in enough money to cover things and I was already feeling resentful at the amount of time and money I had put into everything looking like a complete waste so needless to say it was really affecting my marriage. Then June of 2003 my grandfather who I had just spoke to passed away. (Dejavu of my father's situation) who had invited me up to witness him marry my grandmother (he was actually my step grandfather but the only one I truly new they had never married and was finally planning on tying the knot).

    That was the straw that broke the camels back for me. Most of my life I dealt with harsh things parents who abused drugs, friends who were more like enemies was a sexual assault victim at a young age. It all just came to a head after that phone call about my grandfather. I don't remember initially anything after that save the hospital which I could not figure out why I could not leave and why I was not allowed to wear my own clothes at first. They let me wander around the halls a lot, I got meals and was told when to go to bed and when to get up. It was the first of 3 "Baker act" mental hospital visits. My husband had to commit me due to nervous break downs. I was diagnosed with schizophrenia and have been dealing with the illness since. I have had plenty ups and downs since my last time in such a place but if I had to narrow down the hardest situation being committed hands down is the situation I would pick.
     
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    Dear Nyxy i am really sorry to hear these:cry:
    sorry if i made you remember all of these things ....forgive me :cry:
     
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  5. Nyxy

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    It's okay now back then it would have affected me more. On meds have a kid who keeps me doing the right thing. Its easier to talk about online under my nick name then it is to tell people face to face still so at least thats a good thing.
     
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    Lol@ not easy at opening up to people even on an anime site but then gives everyone her life's story.
     
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    Getting out of bed in the mornings. 。:゚(。ノω\。)゚・。
     
  8. aono

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    Yeah getting out of bed is so hard specially in school days
     
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    I was gonna say my dick right before i plunge it up in dem gutz...
     
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    gross. you two cyber in private please
     
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    u jelly.

    but i was gonna say losing my grandmother was hard. but thanks for being a bitch.
     
  12. aono

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    When I am forced to eat fish .............
    I hate fish .....:sick:
     
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    Guess jeux is out of luck :odd:
     
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    oh my word...





    edit: answering the question-
    getting a call that someone i knew was just murdered
    definitely an eye opener amongst other things
     
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    When you really need to urinate but there is no toilet :tongue:
     
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    ^
    that's why cups were invented
    plan b
     
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  17. Aya

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    when i cheated on one of my exams, that was fucking bad after then never did it again, all the time had the feeling im gunna get caught ._.'
     
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    Thats pretty risky. Here if you get caught cheating they would fail you from the course so youd have to pay another $1000 for it again IF they dont just kick you out of the school
     
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    pretty much the same outcomes lol, thats why was stressful :finger:
     
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